In many classic films and novels, women are always portrayed as pawns or prizes among men. Unfortunately, if women are attracted to guys they need to act naive and wait for the guy to make the first move. But ladies need not to worry anymore because the traditional courtship has been dead decades ago. Its death brought life to what we call dating nowadays. Dating is a lot better than courtship because the weight of proving that you are worthy to someone isn’t carried by the man alone. It’s more of a mutual decision between two persons where they have the opportunity to get to know one another.
To all the women reading this, don’t be scared and make that move right now. It doesn’t matter if he likes you or not, what’s important is that you were able to express what you truly feel. I’m pretty sure you don’t want to end up reading articles on dating all your life.
As cliché as it may sound but life is short mawma, others perception of you doesn’t matter. So you better take a risk and get out in that battlefield. There are a lot of creative ways for you to do that (Hello Social Media). Perhaps, you could start by liking his photos and status on Facebook but take note you don’t have to like everything because he might think you’re a creep.
Then after a couple of likes, you can start commenting on his photos or a status about his favorite TV show. Try something witty, a good sense of humor is definitely a turn on. Don’t try too hard though. Be natural. If he commented back, then grab the opportunity to start a private chat with him.
Finally, ask him out for a date.
Maybe, ask him if he wants to go out for dinner to discuss about his favorite TV show because it’s hard to explain in chat. Both of you then go out and the rest is history. When it doesn’t really work in the end, do not feel sorry for yourself. Remember that you are a strong and independent woman. You have the power to fully take control of your life.